Daily Devotional – 12/3/15 “Remodel, don’t tear down!”

You don’t have to tear folk down in order to build them up. You don’t have to destroy folk’s self-esteem and then act like you were encouraging them. You don’t have to criticize all the time, try showing them instead. In progressIt’s like remodeling a building, house or even an old car; sometimes the outside shell of what you’re rebuilding is good but the inside is tore up. So you don’t destroy the shell but you gut the inside. Why? Because the outside is good, the inside is what’s jacked up. Haven’t you been to a place that’s been remodeled? The outside is still the same but the inside is brand new. This is how, as God’s people, we have to be to one another. You don’t have to tear folk down on the outside, their problem is internal; start there. It’s even the same for self-remodeling. Stop with buying all the clothes, shoes and smell good fragrances to mask that your inside is rotting. Start from the inside and work your way out.

Sometimes, we need to do a self-remodel of ourselves because we’ve been blinded by the, ‘God knows my heart’ stigma too long. Yea, God may know your heart but does He know your voice? Beloved, we’ve got to get to a place in our spiritual lives where we stop running from whatever it is God is trying to do in our life. What does that mean? It means that it’s time for your overgrown self to grow up. It means it’s time for you to stop relying on Grandma’s praise and get your own. It means that it’s time you stop playing church. It means it’s time you fix yourself. It means that you may have to send yourself to rehab (physically and spiritually). It means its time you let go of the dope smoking and drinking every day. It means it’s time you put down the games and find a real job. It means you need to pull your pants up and your dresses down. It means you need to stop sexing everybody you meet. It means you stop being hellish all the doggone time. It means it’s time to remodel you, internally. Stop masking the hole in your heart with another person, deal with the real issue of why your relationships aren’t working. Stop covering up your tear-stained face and deal with why you’re crying. Stop hiding the bruises of abuse with clothes and makeup, seek help. Don’t tear down to rebuild yet encourage yourself to remodel.

-I’m a work in progress so pardon my dust.

“But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness. Hebrews 3:13”

Daily Devotional – 12/2/15 “How are you living?”

Lookahere, I know you are striving to get to Heaven but you’ve got to be some earthly good, too. See, I can write every devotional on how good Heaven has been described (streets paved with gold, you got a mansion with the deed in your name, trees with fruit for the healing of your body, etc.) but if I don’t tell you about your living, on earth, how can you possible get there to see it? It’s not about how well you recite scriptures but it is about how real you are. It’s not about the degrees with your name on it but it’s about the degree you’re willing to go, to serve God in your assignment. It’s not about the money in the bank but it’s about the gratitude of your giving. It’s not about who you love but it’s all about how you love. Beloved, how can you expect to make it to see God when you don’t even take the time to make it to see grandma? How can you expect to worship all day in Heaven when you won’t even get up to worship on Sunday? How can you possibly be used later if you aren’t worth nothing now?

Chile, you’ve got to get it together. Stop with the, ‘I’ll go to church when I get myself together’ because it’ll never happen on your own. Break the, ‘I’ll do it and repent later’ because you’re becoming a sinful mess. Quit with, ‘if God bless me with this car, I’ll be in church every Sunday’ when you know it’s a bold face lie. Cut out the ‘the pastor just want all my money’ because tithes and offering is for the up keep of the church and building of the ministry. Notice I said tithes and offering, all that extra is a personal decision so don’t blame the messenger of God when that stuff was in place before he or she got there. All I’m saying is this, be worthy of who you are. I get it, folk ought to take you or leave you but beloved, there is a way to do and say all things. I don’t mind you not biting your tongue but watch your tone. I don’t mind you speaking your mind but mind what you say. There’s a way to criticize in love. The sad reality is, there’s a lot of ‘Christian’ folk on the list to hell, if you don’t get your stuff together. God isn’t pleased with our service or how we serve. Your devotion should remain to be the best in whatever position you play, in the body of Christ. Be worthy of who you are!

“Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter.” Matthew 7:21

#GivingTuesday – Authors you should know!

It’s giving Tuesday so I thought I’d give you some of my favorite books for you to stock up on. It’s Winter time and what better way to keep warm than to be snuggled up with a glass of wine (or your favorite drink) and your kindle or smart device that has been filled with great books.

Here are my top 10 (right now).

  1. The Wrong Husband by B.M. Hardin

    Wrong Husband
    What’s a woman to do when she marries the wrong man? When the reality is, she should have married her husband’s best friend?

    Sassi appeared to have it all. A career, two beautiful kids, and an amazing husband to match.
    Then why was she so unhappy?
    For Sassi, something had always been missing in her marriage but she’d learned to deal with it. She was unhappy, but she was content. She was unsatisfied, but she was comfortable. And she loved her husband enough to try to see their marriage through to the end. But just because a woman is smiling, that doesn’t mean that she’s happy.
    Secrets are only as quiet as they are kept and when secrets from the past start to reveal, she discovers that she may have fallen for the wrong man all along.
    Things get sticky and soon Sassi finds herself in love with two men.
    Her husband and his best friend.
    But the grass isn’t always greener on the other side because everyone always has something to hide.
    Revenge is a dish best served cold and with lies and secrets, and a scoop of betrayal from the start. Sassi will learn the true meaning of “Til’ death do us part.”

    Get it here


  2. Secrets of A Cheating Heart by Chase Monet

    SecretsCheryl Cartwright is a beautiful woman with a successful career. She wears designer clothes, drives a luxury car, lives in a lavish home and has an attractive husband with a six figure salary. Michael gives Cheryl everything she wants except for one little thing; monogamy. Even though he has been unfaithful to her since their college days, she thought that marriage would end his promiscuity. Unfortunately he never turned in his player card. His position as a top marketing executive makes it all too easy to conduct pleasurable business with his associates of the female persuasion. After suffering a miscarriage at the hands of one of his mistresses, Cheryl decides to leave Michael for good and sets a plan in motion to have her happily ever after with a man from her past. Isaac is the perfect man. He is loving, loyal and honest. Just when it seems like Cheryl will finally have her fairytale ending, Michael throws up a major roadblock. He discovers a secret that Cheryl has hidden from her new beau and threatens to use it against her. The actions he takes to try and hold on to Cheryl cause him to make several enemies. More secrets are exposed and now his enemies want the ultimate revenge……murder! But which one of them is relentless enough to go through with it?

    Get it HERE


  3. Can’t Love What I Don’t Trust (book 1 and 2) by Khara campbell

    Cant loveCassandra had been in love before and if you asked her, love was pain; every day she was reminded of that with the hand she was currently dealt. She struggles to provide for the kids, working a dead-end job while going to school. Stuck in a meaningless relationship, which only involved midnight creeps into her bed, she ends things with Darius in hopes for something better in life.
    Just when Cassandra isn’t looking for anything or anyone, that’s when Marco comes along; he’s handsome, a great father to his son, and a business owner. Marco’s had his share of women and often juggled relationships, but upon meeting Cassandra, his desire is kindled and he has to fight against wanting anything more than just a casual thing. With each day, they both fight the obvious; they want each other. A night of forbidden passion leads them into bed together; they soon wind up going back and forth, as Cassandra begins to date Damian to distract her from the one she really wants–Marco.
    The attraction is strong and the chemistry is explosive–will their efforts to ignore their hearts’ desire trump love, or will they finally give in to what is obviously meant to be?

    You can now get the 2 part series by clicking HERE


  4. Hate the Way He Loves Me by Stacey Covington Lee

    hate the wayZoe Shaw’s childhood was anything but perfect. Zoe, her sister Pam, and their mother, Martha were terrorized by Otis Shaw. The man that vowed to love and protect them had become a drunken, abusive animal that took pleasure in their suffering. But when he begins to look at Zoe with lover’s eyes, she finds herself taking drastic measures to ensure that he ll never hurt any of the Shaw women again. When word gets out that Otis may be resurfacing Zoe, being the strongest of the trio, decides that it’s time for them to move away and start anew. Zoe’s best friend, Desmond Page, moved away a long time ago. Having had a difficult childhood of his own, he and Zoe found love and acceptance with one another and did their best to shield each other from harm. Now that she’s looking to relocate, he suggests that she join him down south.

    Their new home offered everything the Shaw women ever wanted; peace, security, opportunity and even the possibility for love. When Ramon Martinez introduced himself to Zoe, the attraction was undeniable, and despite her better judgment, she allowed herself to fall for the uncommonly handsome business owner. What she didn’t realize was that he was also the product of an abusive home, but unlike her, he chose to follow the example set by his father. His jealousy and insecurity led him to deliver painful consequences for what he deemed inexcusable behavior. But he has clearly underestimated Zoe and the question now is which one of them will survive this battered love.

    Get it HERE


  5. Plain Jane by Tamika Newhouse
  6. Plain JaneSome say, once a good girl goes bad, she’s gone forever. However, reality says once a good girl gets laid the right way, she’s a brand-new freak, right? Natalie’s passionless marriage is slowly dying; one day her husband up and leaves without an explanation. Joyclyn , from the bestselling series, The Ultimate No-No, takes a liking to Natalie and seductively brings Natalie into her world of sex, lust, and the game of who can get it. When Natalie meets William David, their sexual chemistry turns into something more than just a one night. Natalie discovers more than just her sexual beast; she soon finds herself face-to-face with true love. Joyclyn’s envy threatens to get the best of her; she wants Natalie all to herself; find out what happens when the game of who can get it turns into a game of winner takes Natalie.

    Get it HERE


  7. The Surrender Series by Melody Anne

    SurrenderRafe Palazzo takes what he wants with no regrets. Arianna (Ari) Lynn Harlow has led a charmed life until tragedy strikes her family. He’s looking for a no-emotions attached mistress, she’s looking for redemption.

    They are not a pair that should ever work, but undeniable attraction and devastating tragedies bring them together in the city by the bay where he fights to keep their relationship nothing more than an enjoyable way to meet his needs, and she battles to not lose herself in him. Spending time with Ari starts cracking the hard shell that Rafe has built around his heart, but he denies the affect she has on him until it’s too late to stop the inevitable conclusion that their relationship is headed for.

    Rafe once believed in happily ever after, coming from a large Italian family. He’s got the Midas touch, since every endeavor he tries turns to gold. That all ends when his wife walks out the door and leaves him blindsided. His devastation quickly turns to steel when he decides no woman will fool him again. From that point on he treats relationships as nothing more than business transactions where both party’s come out mutually benefited.

    Just when Ari has sunk to the lowest she’s ever been she finds an ad in the paper announcing a job that’s too good to be true. It turns out she’s right. She makes it through the intense rounds of interviews only to find out the job is for a mistress to the powerful Rafe Palazzo, owner of Palazzo Enterprises. Rafe gives her a day to think about whether she wants the position or not, and she’s sent on her way, only to find out her mother’s near-terminal position has taken a turn for the worse. Her mom’s only in the hospital because Ari messed up, and her mother’s the one who paid the price. Is Rafe her savior, or will he take her with him straight to the depths of hell?

    Get them HERE


  8. Torn: Confessions of a selfish lover by M. Bradley

    TornOn the outside, Vince is every woman’s dream. He is a summa cum laude Morehouse graduate, and CEO of his own company. He’s handsome, rich, charming, single, and he has no children. So what’s the catch? Unfortunately, he also comes with baggage you wouldn’t believe.

    After losing his father, love lost its luster and he fell back into his youthful playboy ways. Vince decides to make his 32nd birthday the last one he spends as a single man, after a conversation with his best friend. However, love doesn’t follow a set schedule and the bad habits of “Instant Vincent” aren’t so eager to go away.

    Vince begins to wonder if it’s true that love really doesn’t love him and his search leads him closer to home. Mykael, is his doting young assistant, who he now sees through a different set of eyes. Then there is Ksenia, the Russian bombshell with whom the connection was instant and undeniable. Before long, Vince finds himself moving from being shunned by love, to having a pair of incredible women to choose between. Faced with a decision that could leave someone with a broken heart, he must choose. Will he still have the power to choose, or will the choice already have been made for him?

    Get it HERE


  9. Black Butterfly Series by Nika Michelle

    BlackMeet Seantay, Seandra and Renell Beauvois . These three heiresses were raised in the lap of luxury, courtesy of their real estate tycoon father Sean and ex model mother Tameah. Worth over half a billion dollars these sisters are as different as night, day and in between. Get sucked into the whirlwind of drama that surrounds the Beauvois sisters and go through a metamorphosis. Black Butterfly is a sexy, juicy, page turner that will keep you wanting more until after the last page.

    Get them HERE


  10. Some hometown favorites:

  11. Enough Time by Christin Webb
    book (2) When Rhea, Sonja, and Julian decide they want to live life on their terms, their worlds open up so much more than they expect. For Rhea Dudley, everything comes to a screeching halt when the deepest betrayal cuts through the middle of her heart – her husband’s infidelity. Besides attempting to be a loyal wife, daughter, best friend, and teacher, Rhea unknowingly finds herself having to decide between the desires of others or her happiness. Avoiding false love and chasing dreams, Rhea uses her voice through her writing and embraces the idea that loving self never hurts. When Sonja Tremmel was a little girl growing up in the north, she never imagined the trials she’d encounter in life. Forced to grow up fast and learn the art of survival, heading to jail as an adolescent turns out to be the smallest pill for Sonja to swallow when it comes to being pregnant as a young inmate. After hooking up with her guardian angel, Cecilia, Sonja begins to take a long hard look at her past, present, and uncertain future, becoming the inspiration for others to continue seeking redemption and finding love. Even after Julian Jones, a young finance executive, decides to detach from his hurtful past, he continues to feel empty inside. Always known for his strong, confident personality, the perception actually lacks depth. Dealing with rejection from his father, losing his secret love interest, and high profile job, Julian finds console as a mentee to a young inner city youth and makes a decision on leaving a meaningful mark on life. Rhea, Sonja, and Julian all prove that committing to change is sometimes easier said than done. They also learn that tomorrow is not a promise, yet opportunity for change in the moment realized. Will the need for change overpower their ability to move forward?

    Get it HERE


  12. Someday series by Jae Henderson

    SomebodyAs a child Tina “Tee” Long dreamed of having it all and as one of Memphis’ most sought after event planners she appears to have achieved it. Even though creating breathtaking events and rubbing elbows with the social elite seems fulfilling, there’s one thing missing from her fairy tale life—her prince charming. After a string of failed, faith-challenging relationships this woman of God refuses to give up on meeting the man of her dreams. Tee knows in her heart that God will answer her prayers–SOMEDAY. Until then, she tries to remain prayerful and content by occupying her time with work, her sister’s drama-filled marriage, counseling wayward youth and her hilarious girlfriends. When Tee is introduced to an incredibly handsome, retired NFL player named Michael Stokes, it seems that someday has finally arrived. There’s one problem. He’s been marked for death.
    Michael Stokes thought life was over after a knee injury claimed his career as a NFL superstar. He realized just how wrong he was after dedicating his life to Christ and beginning on a wonderful new path as a motivational speaker and book author. He even meets Tee, a woman who makes all the other women he’s dated seem like a waste of time. But when his past comes back to haunt him Michael’s greatest fear is not the loss of his lucrative contract but losing the woman who must be heaven sent. Will Tee accept a man who has a killer on his trail and a surprising new addition to his family? “Someday” is full of adventure, excitement, thrills, laughter and love as Tee and Michael fight to stay alive in order to stay together.

    Get them HERE (along with her newest book)


These are only a snippet of my reading list but these are authors that you should know! Get to know them by downloading their work; reading, reviewing and then sharing it with others.

–Happy Reading
Lakisha

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Daily Devotional – 12/1/15 “Get out of your own way!”

The Thanksgiving holiday has come and gone … are you still thankful? I mean it’s a new month, are you still singing the same song from last month? Do you still have the ‘Why me’ lyrics on repeat? 12166610_10208139613986850_981395253_n Are you still dancing to ‘I wish’ theme song? Are you still hanging around with the same ‘if I were you’ crowd? Still going to the ‘I ain’t going there anymore’ places? Still saying, ‘God knows my heart’ to negate the fact that your heart isn’t right? Still telling folk, ‘I got up on the wrong side of the bed’ to account for your jacked up attitude? Are you still blaming ‘the man’ for you not getting out? Are you still mad at the Pastor for trying to bring worship into this century? Still blaming momma or daddy for not bailing you out for the thousandth time? Still casting blame on society for your misfortune? It’s still your baby momma’s fault that you’re a dead beat dad, ain’t it? Still baby daddy fault for you getting pregnant, again huh?

Ma’am, sir; grow up! Puh-lease! Look here, I know folk are always preaching on what you need to do to get to Heaven but baby, you need to realize that what you’re doing NOW isn’t working, for you, down here. You need to understand that the mistakes you continually make need to stop. You need to get that throwing the pity party is old and worn out. You need to realize that wallowing in self-made sorrow doesn’t look good on you. You need to get up AND then get out of your mess. You got laid off six months ago and you’re still looking for work; keep looking. Spouse left you, three years ago, get over it and move on; they have. Your car was repossessed; house foreclosed on; ok, what now? What are you going to do about it? The bible says in Proverbs 16:8-9, “Better to have little, with godliness, than to be rich and dishonest. We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.” Stop worrying about folk; they’ll sometimes find wrong in your right. Do what pleases God and He’ll do what pleases you. Get out of your own way!

Proverbs 16:7, “When people’s lives please the LORD, even their enemies are at peace with them.”

Ms. Nice Nasty 2 – Coming December 4, 2015

Ms. Nice Nasty 2 will be delivered to your E-Reader on Friday, December 4, 2015!!

Are you ready? Are you as excited as I am?

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Didn’t your mother teach you that actions have consequences?

For Camille, her dream job has landed in her lap but it has come at the worst possible time in her life. Her already shaky marriage is crumbling before her eyes and she has to decide whether it’s worth saving. Add in her husband’s pregnant side chick and all the skeletons in her closet that are starting to peek out, she may be in over her head!

After accepting her new position, she’s looking to celebrate a silver lining in the chaos of her life but karma comes knocking, HARD. On the night of her party, she comes face to face with a gun and the last person she’d ever expect to be holding it. Now she has to get out, alive, without alerting the media and the ballroom full of people waiting downstairs?

She thought she could handle all the scandalous secrets she’d been hiding but when they all start coming out at once, she quickly realizes she’s dead wrong. Therapy hasn’t helped yet but will an unexpected death open her blinded eyes? Or will it be too late? Has her actions left her with more consequences than she can conquer or can she survive with her mind, marriage and career intact?

Find out in the series finale of Ms. Nice Nasty!

You can order your copy HERE

–Happy Reading