HEAL YOU, SIS!

Dear Sis, I apologize for being the bearer of this gut wrenching news but …. You cannot be mad at ALL men simply because you’ve made the mistake of choosing ALL the wrong ones. Well, you can but why should all men men pay for the consequences of your mistake? Please hear me with yourContinue reading “HEAL YOU, SIS!”

Breathe

When tragedy happens, we tend to question things. We question God, ourselves, the air because what do you mean they’re gone, I have cancer, my car is totaled, I’m being laid off, I have to move … what? It’s also during these times that anger rises because we don’t understand. Without understanding, all we haveContinue reading “Breathe”

It Matters Who You Marry

People often ask my husband, “How is it like living with a preacher/pastor?” He always got this question, especially right after I accepted my call to ministry. I guess folk expected our life to dry up or something. Yes, I changed. I had to because I couldn’t stay the same, but I didn’t stop beingContinue reading “It Matters Who You Marry”

I prayed, “God, forgive me…”

Lately, I’ve felt tired. Not in the fatigue kind of way, but in the “is this worth it anymore,” kind of way. Then it hit me, early this morning. I’m tired because I’ve stopped enjoying the blessings of my gifts. Here’s why. I began looking at the tangible instead of trusting the plans and purposeContinue reading “I prayed, “God, forgive me…””

3 reasons God makes us wait

During your waiting season, God does 3 things. He prunes, prepares then promotes. Someone may ask, why does it hurt? Well, pruning is removing anything dead, damaged, or can compete with your growth. Preparation includes stretching ensuring you have room for said growth. Both come with a little pain because here’s the hard truth. SomeContinue reading “3 reasons God makes us wait”