Daily Devotional – 6/10/14 “Open your mouth!”

Your marriage is suffering because you and your husband are too scared to tell your parents to butt out. Your relationship with the children is going to hell because you’re too afraid of hurting their feelings when you should be the adult. You keep praying for God to remove the enemy from around you yet you’re still sleeping with him or her because you’re scared to roll over and tell them it’s over. Your grown kids are causing havoc in your home because you’re too scared to put their tail out. You can’t even go out if you wanted too because your daughter keeps dropping her kids off but tell her no every once in a while. You keep allowing your family to drain you dry because you’re fearful of telling them no sometime. Baby, God gave you a mouth to use, use it! Stop letting folk kill your dreams, rain on your parade, surround you with their pity and fill you up with their foolishness. When will you say enough is enough? Open your mouth! You’re quick to tell the pastor the mistake he made but you walk around on egg shells in your own house. You get to your job and won’t open your mouth when folk do you wrong but let Sis. So & So step on your toe in church and you’re ready to fight. Stop holding stuff in when things aren’t right because if you’re right in what you’re saying, my bible tells me in Proverbs 12:19, “The one who tells the truth will endure forever, but the one who lies will last only for a moment.” If you aren’t happy say so. If you’re sad, say that too. If you aren’t being fed spiritually, say it and if you don’t understand what is being taught (God’s word), say that too for the bible says we are destroyed for the lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6). Open your mouth and declare that the enemy has to flee. Open your mouth and take back that which has been taken by the enemy. Open your mouth and declare victory over sicknesses and debts. Open your mouth and declare yourself victorious. Open your mouth and declare that you shall be first and not last. Open your mouth and declare that this promotion is yours. Open your mouth and declare that there is no limit with God. Open your mouth and declare that everything that is meant for you shall be. Open your mouth and declare with the faith that it’s already done and it will be. Open your mouth and take back your home, your children, your career, your passion, your living and your giving. Open your mouth and declare it! For my bible tells me, “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light; Once you had no identity as a people; now you are God’s people. Once you received no mercy; now you have received God’s mercy. 1 Peter 2:9-10.”

(My personal testimony but I’ll share it …)
For I am chosen, even in this mean world, I am royalty; I belong to God which means I can declare His praises, for it was God who called me; it was God who turned my darkness into light; it was God who chose me! Before I was nobody now I am just who God declares I am. Before I had an office of mess but now I have a ministry of God’s mercy. Before I was who man called me but oh when God called my name He called me chosen!

Blog Tour … Enough Time by Christin Webb

Being a author is hard work but being a self-published author is even harder because you have to go above and beyond to get your name out and the author I am featuring today does just that. She is living her passion out loud and I hope by the time you finish meeting her, through this blog, she motivates you to live your passion.

Her book Enough Time is available for you to purchase through Amazon by clicking HERE  but let’s get to know Christin …

 Author Christin Webb  

Christin Webb

After years of earning degrees, building relationships, developing a career, and adjusting to single-motherhood, writer Christin Webb took a leap of faith to begin following her dreams to become Author Christin Webb.​

Seeking an opportunity for change is the motto that Christin lives by and uses as the basis for her first self-published novel, Enough Time and short fiction blog, ​Is It Real?​. It has been Christin’s personal experiences and creative visions that bring her writing to life to ignite growth and inspiration in each story.

Christin’s nonfiction work has been featured on sites such as Diva By Design. She has a feature article that appeared on the blog, Bird on a Wire. Christin also has experience singing and acting. In 2010, Christin published the Memphis 2010 Historical Calendar, which featured 365 days of Memphis history.

Beyond making differences with words, Christin has always found community and leadership very important and finds giving back an easy task. She has acted in several volunteer capacities with organizations such as the National Civil Rights Museum and the United Way. Christin was formerly an Executive Board Member and Secretary of the National Coalition of 100 Black Women, Inc. ~ Memphis, TN. Chapter.

Christin has a BA in Social Work from the University of Memphis and an MBA from Webster University. Christin works in the utility industry and currently lives in Memphis, TN with her daughter, Jasmine. Christin hopes to continue to use her leadership and creative spirit to make positive differences.

 


 

1.      How did you begin writing?

I began writing when I was seven years old. My father was a writer and I remember wanting to mimic him. Before I knew it, I found myself in love with the process. Beginning with poems and short plays, I quickly learned that I’d found something that made me undoubtedly happy.

2.      What is your inspiration for writing?

My inspiration for writing is partially credited to my father who was a writer for most of his life. The other credit is given to my desire to share the stories of inspiration that have always been a part of me.

3.      What makes you unique?

I mostly enjoy writing fiction and I believe what makes my style unique is my ability to take real life situations and engage a reader to look intuitively into their own lives and experiences and see the connection.

4.      Where do you see yourself this time next year, within your writing career?

This time next year, it’s my hope to have published my second book, continue with my blog, Passion Living Out Loud, and working on more screenwriting opportunities. I also desire to continue speaking with young women and children on topics related to my books.

5.      What are you currently working on?

I have a few irons in the fire right now. I’m working on my second book which will be a compilation of over 30 short stories about resilient women facing every day situations. I’m also working as a co-writer with a local director on an upcoming short film, titled, “Imperfection”. And I’m in the early stages of working on my first biographical book of a jazz musician. There are a few other projects that I have my hands in, but they are too far in the early stages to mention right now, but all very exciting.

 


 

You can purchase your copy of Enough Time from Amazon by clicking HERE 

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When Rhea, Sonja, and Julian decide they want to live life on their terms, their worlds open up so much more than they expect. For Rhea Dudley, everything comes to a screeching halt when the deepest betrayal cuts through the middle of her heart – her husband’s infidelity. Besides attempting to be a loyal wife, daughter, best friend, and teacher, Rhea unknowingly finds herself having to decide between the desires of others or her happiness. Avoiding false love and chasing dreams, Rhea uses her voice through her writing and embraces the idea that loving self never hurts. When Sonja Tremmel was a little girl growing up in the north, she never imaged the trials she’d encounter in life. Forced to grow up fast and learn the art of survival, heading to jail as an adolescent turns out to be the smallest pill for Sonja to swallow when it comes to being pregnant as a young inmate. After hooking up with her guardian angel, Cecilia, Sonja begins to take a long hard look at her past, present, and uncertain future, becoming the inspiration for others to continue seeking redemption and finding love. Even after Julian Jones, a young finance executive, decides to detach from his hurtful past, he continues to feel empty inside. Always known for his strong, confident personality, the perception actually lacks depth. Dealing with rejection from his father, losing his secret love interest, and high profile job, Julian finds console as a mentor to a young inner city youth and makes a decision on leaving a meaningful mark on life. Rhea, Sonja, and Julian all prove that committing to change is sometimes easier said than done. They also learn that tomorrow is not a promise, yet opportunity for change in the moment realized. Will the need for change overpower their ability to move forward?

Excerpt:

It was yesterday when I realized who I was becoming. Everything I never wanted to become. I sat there with my head down and tears rolling from my eyes. What had I done to deserve this type of treatment? I always said this could never happen to me, but I was wrong. Never say never.

“Baby, are you ready to go?” asked Terrance as he did every morning at 7:15. He always had to wait on me.

“Almost,” was usually my response.

“You need to hurry because I don’t have all day,” he said in an agitated voice. “I have a very important meeting this morning,” he demanded, while in the kitchen preparing his brown leather briefcase. I bought it for Terrance after he was offered the job as Manager of Communications at the local utility company. I was very proud of him. I was trying to find a way to make him feel like the man of the house, supported and loved by his wife. I wanted to be there, every step of the way. “Very important, Rhea! You can’t screw this up for me by having me late. You hear me?”

“Baby, all that yelling is not necessary. I’m trying to hurry. I can’t find my purse. Do you see it?” I was lying through my teeth. I knew where it was. I always put my purse on top of the closet chest. I was trying to get my hair and makeup just perfect before I made it to work. While I’ve always been somewhat of a perfectionist, Terrance never found it hard to express his desire for me to look picture perfect. Wearing my matching pink blouse and pencil skirt, I took a last glimpse in the mirror and agreed that I was looking rather stylish and confident for the day. My open toe black pump really complimented the arch in my walk.

“Forget the purse. You got ten minutes to be in the car. Ten minutes, Rhea. Ten and then I’m gone!”

As he waited for me to finish dressing I could overhear him bickering back and forth on the phone with a co-worker, “Look, you’re going to have to wait just a few more hours. The appointment is set for 10:30 today. Other than that, nothing can be resolved until then. I have nothing else for you. Be patient, ok!” Terrance said. That’s what most of his business conversations sounded like. I didn’t think much of it as I continued getting dressed. Without looking at me, he left the room and headed towards the kitchen.

“Ok. Ok. Here I come,” I said grabbing my purse and heading downstairs to the garage door. The silver clock on the counter next to the garage opener read: 7:25. I closed the door behind me and walked to the car.

“About time,” he said as he leaned over and abruptly swung the passenger door open as I got in the car.

“Whatever.”

“What do you mean… whatever? You’re the one about to make me lose out on the biggest deal all year. Don’t you want to continue going to the mall and spending all my money? You better get your mind right,” he continued while backing out of the garage into the driveway. “You need to watch who you are talking to.”

“I know who I’m talking to, Terrance,” I rummaged through my purse and rolled my eyes. “You can be so impatient.”

Next thing I knew, from out of nowhere, I felt something hit my face. I looked up behind the force and realized that it was Terrance’s hand. Before I could even get the word “Stop!” out of my mouth, I felt another hit, then another and another. I reached for the dashboard and closed my eyes tightly. My tears pleaded for release as they streamed down my face only to gain no sympathy from my violator, my husband.

I could feel pieces of me being chipped away like rotten wood behind each strike. The pain behind each hit weighed less than the pain my heart was experiencing. It was the first time I was left feeling useless and helpless. Finding the strength to fight back didn’t seem like an option. He’d never hurt me before. Up until that day, I considered myself to be relatively confident, strong even. What took years to maintain was being peeled away by each fist Terrance pummeled into my soul. He was trying to make me feel as powerless as possible, disposable.

After what seemed like forever, he then looked at me and said, “You know better than to be talking back to me. I’m the man of the house. You have no right to talk back. Try it again and I will shut you down, every time. Do you understand me, Rhea?”

I didn’t know what to say. I was stunned, hurt, angry, sad, and in pain, all at the same time. I just nodded my head and cried. I still don’t know why I didn’t react any differently. I always said a man would never be able to hit me and get away with it, but that was before I thought I was in love, before I met Terrance.

You can purchase your copy of Enough Time from Amazon by clicking HERE 

 


 

You can find Christin on her Blog – Passion Living Out Loud or her Facebook page Author Christin Webb

 

 

Daily Devotional – 6/4/14 “True Christians, take your place!”

Everyday news about violence, sickness & diseases, our failing economy, rising healthcare cost and worldly turmoil is on the rise and as people of God, we are losing. Not because God isn’t doing His part but because we aren’t doing ours. Yea, I am aware that church can’t fix everything but shouldn’t everything start at church? I mean, if we as Christians would really root ourselves in Christ, I can only imagine how much better most of us would be. On yesterday I said that our churches are dying and it’s true mainly because we’ve taken away the main focus on what church should be. We spend more time fighting with the pastor than fighting for the pastor. We get so wrapped up in mess that most of us can’t even remember the Sunday message to even share with somebody else. We gossip so much that now folk go to church to find out everybody’s business. Isn’t that a shame? We won’t even be on time for worship and don’t even get me started on Sunday school yet you make it a point to be on time for work or free admission to the club. You give more respect to the boss at your job but not the person God has placed as the shepherd of His flock. You stay until last call for alcohol but get mad when church runs a little long. You can attend happy hour but not bible study. You can get up for a yard sale but not prayer breakfast. Where do our priorities lie? So many of our youth are dying and most of them without a church home but that’s because the parents don’t have one. Children are committing suicide and mass killings yet we claim we don’t understand why but no one thought about that when God was taken out of schools. And still we don’t pray with our children before they leave the house. Folk have found it to be cool to post videos of people fighting each other or of babies cursing but that ain’t cute nowhere. When did we start giving the devil free reign? When did we lose our love for Christ? Where are the true Christians who don’t mind stopping in the middle of a crowded mall to pray for someone? Where are the true Christians who aren’t afraid to post about their love for God rather than their love for man? Where are the true Christians who actually carry a bible to church and take notes? Would all the true Christians please stand up? We’ve got to take our churches back and get our lives together. I’m tired of the churches being empty on Sunday but the concert arenas are packed. I’m tired of bible study being empty but the bars full. And I am sick and tired of our youth filling our cemeteries and jail cells. Our churches are dying because we are allowing them too. All it takes is the effort of Christians to truly love God like we say we do and then work like we know we should. Will true Christians please take your place?

Daily Devotional – 6/3/14 “Follow!”

I revisited the devotional I did on this day last year and it was titled, “Stuck and you don’t even know it.” Now, this doesn’t mean much to you but after bible study on last night, I got excited. Pastor Letcher taught from 1st Timothy 4:6-16 “Preparing for leadership,” and although I couldn’t get my thoughts together last night, the wheels are turning now. See, I’ve come to understand that not everybody who calls themselves leaders are actually worthy of the title. Yea, 1st Timothy 4 talks about good ministers and false teachers because 1st Timothy 4:1 plainly states, “The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons.” And if the truth shall be told today, most of the ones who have abandoned the faith are in our churches yet no one has the gall to say something to them or even cast them out. Oh but then 1st Timothy 4:6 says, “If you point these things out to the brothers and sisters, you will be a good minister of Christ Jesus, nourished on the truths of the faith and of the good teaching that you have followed.” Isn’t that something? It’s the pastor’s responsibility as 2nd Timothy 4:2 says to, “Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage–with great patience and careful instruction.” We, as Christians, get so caught up in the roles we play that we forget the role we’ve actually been given. Yea, I understand that you’ve been at the church longer, you might be older and wiser, you know the bible front and back but you still have a role to play. It’s time out for playing church because the church, as a whole, is dying. The devil’s tricks are getting clever and we have to be able to discern the many spirits that flock to God’s house on Sunday and this comes by being prepared to lead but you have to first be able to follow. A pastor can’t be a leader if he can’t follow God the same way you can’t become a member of a church if you can’t follow the pastor. Our churches are dying and it’s our job to save them but we can only do that by following God’s commandments. It’s amazing how quick folk are to confront the pastor but you won’t say nothing to the member who is raising all the hell. Pastors need to get back to anointing folk with oil, casting out demons that are taking over our churches and worshipping God the right way. Christians need to get back to being anointed with oil, casting out demons and worshipping God the right way. Study God’s word for yourself and follow Him which will then allow you to follow those who have been put in charge over you and when you do this, God won’t allow you to be led astray. Follow and follow with respect!

Daily Devotional – 6/2/14 “Just go!”

I’ve come to realize and understand that sometimes God tells us to do things just to see if we will. Yea, I understand now that God didn’t have a purpose for telling us to go, He simply wanted to see if we would. God didn’t even have a specific thing for us to do when we got there but He wanted to see if we would get there. I know it’s been said that if we go for God, He’ll go for us but I’ve found that even if we don’t go, God still does. See, it isn’t about us because God knows we are lazy, stubborn, hard headed and selfish yet He still goes for us. God knows we lie when we say we won’t sin again yet He still forgives. Yes, God does know our heart yet He still loves us. God knows we don’t always pray, say grace over our food and thank Him for waking us up in the morning and allowing us to make another day in this crazy world yet He still covers us. God knows we don’t always do what we say we will, go where we should, do what we know is right and love everybody like He commanded yet He still loves us. Despite everything we do and don’t do, God still goes for us. I said all of that to say this …just go! I don’t know who this is for but go. You don’t have to understand God’s plan to know it’s a good one. You don’t have to know every detail just know that God always deliver. So go on wherever God is about to send you because He has a purpose for it. Please know this; God won’t ever take us to a place that He hasn’t already prepared with a way out. He won’t take us down a road that doesn’t allow for road side assistance and he won’t ever back us up against a wall without space enough to shout our way out of. Just go! Trust God enough to know that He’ll be there waiting when you get there. “Though you have not seen him, you love him. And even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and rejoice with an indescribable and glorious joy, because you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” 1 Peter 1:8-9