Daily Devotional – 12/1/14 “Spiritual cleansing!”

A new month and you’re still singing the same sad song. You’re still blaming God for the mess and the stress when baby, the hell you’re going through might just be because of whom you’ve surrounded yourself with. Yea, God sends test but it’s only to test our faith because He will never send anything that will cause us to be suicidal and depressed. Yes, God test us in all areas of our life but it’s only to see if we’ve been studying the lesson He’s been teaching. That sickness you’ve been toiling with, it has nothing to do with you but it’s about the work of God that is being manifested through you. Don’t you get it? Every time you get sick and then bounce back, someone is touched by your testimony. Every time you go in the hospital and come out, someone is helped by your healing. Every time you go down but get up, someone is moved by the miracle. It ain’t about you! The only reason you’re at a point of giving up now is because you’re listening to the enemy who has attached himself to you. He is a spirit you know? Or maybe it’s the person you’re confiding in that’s keeping your spirit down. This is why the bible says in 1 John 4:1 that you cannot believe every spirit that you have to test them by the spirit. Oh but get this, if your spirit ain’t right you’ll get what your spirit summons for. If you have a spirit of confusion, you’ll draw someone with a spirit of confusion. We need to get it together Saints! We need a spiritual cleansing. I’ve said it before, God isn’t pleased with the current conditions in which we live and worship in.

This is why you have to stop attaching to any and everybody because their spirit can sink its claws into you. You have to be mindful of the folk you’re around constantly! But you can’t do it if you aren’t right. This goes for home, work and worship. It’s time for us to tell the enemy to pack his bags and get the hell out. Get yourself together and then walk around your home and bless it with your mouth. (You have the power to cast him out.) Speak life over whatever seems dead in your life and see if God won’t restore it (if it’s for you). Anoint the doors because God says He will bless you coming and going. Pray over everyone in your household and see if God won’t move. Baby, I pray every day for God to use me mightily and every day the enemy amps up his attack to quiet me down but that’s alright because I have faith that God won’t ever leave me alone. And with the way my faith is set up, no matter how many times I draw from it; I’ll never go into the negative. Try your account and you’ll see that you have the same overdraft protection.

Daily Devotional – 11/26/14 – It’s not about black Friday!

Everybody is gearing up for Thanksgiving on tomorrow. The sad part about it is, it’s not even about the holiday anymore because black Friday has now made its way over into Thanksgiving Thursday and we are ok with that. We don’t spend time having dinner like we used too, giving thanks for all the things we are truly thankful for because we are too busy making list of things to go get. We’d rather sacrifice family time for an $8 deal that will be $10 next week and we’d rather stand in a long line to get pushed and shoved to get $3 off a pair of shoes rather than sit down at the dinner table to have a conversation with the children. Our world has it wrong. We get upset when we can’t get our children everything they ask for and most of the time they aren’t doing anything that we ask of them. We send them to school with high priced tennis shoes on yet all they do is walk over the teacher with their disrespectful attitude. You won’t take the time to buy groceries but you’ll go to Best Buy for a new TV. And then next month you’ll be crying again when it’s time to pay bills yet your TV will look good but no cable. Where are our priorities?

I just find it mind boggling that we will take off, use vacation time (for those of us who job don’t give us Friday off) to shop yet you’ll miss every Sunday for worship with the excuse, “I work on Sundays.” Yea, you’ll stand in the cold for a sale but let it rain or even there be a threat of rain and the church parking lot will be so empty. You’ll knock folk down to throw money away on something you probably don’t need but let the church raise an offering and there you go rolling your eyes. Yet the bible says in Matthew 6:19, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal?” I just … I wonder how much greater our lives would be if we would be as devoted to God as we are to Black Friday? I wonder how deeper our spiritual lives would be if our drive to praise would be like our drive to shop on Black Friday? I wonder! Do you? Please understand, I am not knocking Black Friday because I work part-time in retail but I wish they would leave it on Friday and stop interfering with Thanksgiving. There is nothing wrong with shopping, if you have the means to do it but I simply wish Christian folk would get back to putting God as top priority. If only we would serve God with the same passion we served some folk, imagine how much greater we’d be walking into our destiny! If only we served God with the same fire we serve some things, imagine the blessings you wouldn’t have room enough to receive! If only we could serve God the way we serve on Black Thursday/Friday … It’s not about the sales y’all, it’s about the Savior who saves.

Daily Devotional – 11/25/14 “He who finds a wife … finds favor!”

Proverbs 18:22, “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.” Now men, not only do you find a wife but you obtain favor from God. Do you not understand how big that is? When you find your wife, you also receive unmerited (that’s undeserved) favor from God and all you did was find the one person God made for you. Yea, I know you think you’re doing something because you’ve been shacking with her for 10 years but don’t you want your favor? I know you think if it ain’t broke why fix it but look again, it’s actually broken and needs fixing. Oh, you’re listening to the folk who say she’ll change once she gets the ring and the paper? Then she isn’t your wife because if you’re already living together then you’re already doing married folk things and you should be committed to each other.

    How do you find you wife?

  • 1. Release the demons of your past. You are not your absentee, alcoholic, drug addicted, or abusive father or mother (if that applies). You are not what society has deemed you to be. You can be exactly who God has destined you to be, if only you believe in yourself. Your past does not matter so stop allowing society to make you think it does. God made you in His image and Ephesians 4:31 says, “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.”
  • 2. You have to be ready to be a husband. 1 Timothy 5:8 says, “Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” The worst thing you can do is take on the responsibility of a husband without being ready.
  • 3. Look for her. But you must have your heart in God in order for Him to lead you to your wife because when you go looking through your natural eyes, the enemy will have lust looking like love and then you’ll be tied to someone who will cause you hell the rest of your natural life. And please don’t go get someone else wife, she isn’t yours! Proverbs 18:22.
  • 4. Cherish her, don’t hurt her. Colossians 3:19 says, “Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.” No one has a right to put their hands on their spouse whether male or female. If you need help, get it!

This is for both men and women – STOP! Stop giving up every time things get hard. Stop allowing folk into your household, into your marriage and into your relationship. Stop telling all your business to your family and friends. You forgive, they don’t. Stop arguing and fighting! Learn how to hash out stuff like grown folk because when you don’t, you raise children who argue and fight. Above all things, keep God as the head. So many times in marriages we leave God out of it and then we expect Him to fix it when it’s bad but keep God as the head and allow Him to be the guide and He will be. It’s not going to be always easy; nothing is but hold on for he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord!

Daily Devotional – 11/24/14 “He who finds a wife …”

Now, this isn’t a women’s bashing devotional but my role is to teach and encourage and that’s what I shall do. I don’t know why God is leading me this way today but the bible says in Proverbs 18:22, “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.” Please don’t get mad at me, I’m simply the messenger but the only reasons you haven’t found a husband yet is because you’re not wife material, you’re not able to be found, you’re angry and unapproachable and/or your standards are too high. Let me break this down …

  • 1. The verse above says, “Whoso finds a wife,” which means you are supposed to be already groomed to be a wife. You’re supposed to know how to take care of your man, your house and then children. Oh but now days, you find it cute to not know how to cook and clean and you wonder why you can’t find a husband. Genesis 2:18 says, “The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
  • 2. A man can’t find you if you can’t be found. I am not saying you should put yourself on blast for the world to see but every now and then, get out and mingle with friends, stop by the break room at work, go to bible study or Sunday school and worship service because you might just be missing your husband. Refer back to Proverbs 18:22.
  • 3. Stop being angry ALL the time. Stop nagging! Stop belittling every man you see. He is not your ex who did you wrong so stop treating him as such. What makes you think a man wants to come home after working all day (whether in the world or church) to a home with a nagging woman. Proverbs 19:13 says, “…and a quarrelsome wife is like the constant dripping of a leaky roof.”
  • 4. Stop setting high standards for a man that are higher than the ones for yourself. You want him to work but you don’t. You want him to bring home the bacon but you can’t cook it. You want a house but won’t clean it. You want him to be God fearing yet you don’t want to go to church. Proverbs 12:4 says, “A worthy wife is a crown for her husband, but a disgraceful woman is like cancer in his bones.”

This won’t be for everybody but it’s for somebody who has been praying for a helpmate. Someone is praying for the state of their marriage, it may be for you. Please understand; I am not blaming the issues of your relationship or the lack of one on you, I am simply stating this from a woman’s point, today. In order for us, as women, to be a helpmate to a man we have to first help ourselves. This is why we have to be prepared to be wives because marriage is hard enough as is, the last thing you need when fighting the world and the enemy is to be fighting at home. And please, please; do this for me … stop waiting for Boaz, he’s dead; wait on your husband that God has already designed for you! But you have to be ready to be a wife! For he who finds a wife finds a good thing!

Whatever you ask in prayer …

I haven’t posted in a while but I am still here and I am still writing! I am currently working on a new series about That Damn Cam from A Secret Worth Keeping Series and she is a mess! I am working on getting A Secret Worth Keeping 2 out more and I am still blogging. Oh, and I recently starting writing for an online magazine called So Fyh Magazine Online & International Publication. (Click on the name to view the link.)  I am also a part of a newly formed ministry called #GWBG (Girls Will Be Girls) and it is on the move. It’s a ministry dedicated to empowering and exhorting young ladies and women. You should check us out. (click on the link).

Y’all I am so excited about the things God is doing in my life, the journey He has me on, the doors He has opened for me and the work He is allowing me to do. I don’t know if you all follow me on social media or my other blog but I recently accepted my calling into ministry and since then things have been happening in my life (for the greater) and I cannot thank God enough.

My prayer this holiday season is that my ministry is more abundantly blessed and that souls are saved through my speaking, through my presence, my words, my books and even through my blogs. I pray that the sales of my books, both fiction and devotionals skyrocket so that people know me in order to get to know the God in me! And then I pray that I finish the first part of my new series in the coming weeks and then finish the second part in the coming months. I am speaking this thang y’all. I pray that GWBG will become so dynamic that it will blow even our minds. I pray that So Fyh Magazine will be more than Danielle could have even imagined. I am even speaking new levels to Delphine Publications, from Tamika down to each author associated who are genuine to the brand! I am speaking an increase in every area from book sales to best sellers list. (Watch God work!) We don’t have to wait until 2015, He will manifest it starting today. Before long you will hear Delphine Publications on the TV and Radio, in the newspaper and magazines for greater things (Nationwide traveling, hosting, etc.).

If you don’t know me by now, please know I am a prayer warrior with faith that can move mountains! I am declaring on today that everything I am asking and believing will be done for you and me! You don’t have to take my word for it but take God at His … “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. Mark 11:24”

Write on!!